{"id":6128,"date":"2024-10-04T14:17:34","date_gmt":"2024-10-04T18:17:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/crations-partage.local\/?p=6128"},"modified":"2024-10-04T14:25:34","modified_gmt":"2024-10-04T18:25:34","slug":"im-a-mom-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/entourage.coop\/en\/im-a-mom-now\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m a mom now?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few hours postpartum, still lost in a kind of fog after a birth that left me full of questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Congratulations! What&#8217;s it like to be a mom?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I remember reading this sentence on my phone and not really understanding what I was being asked. Am I a mom? Well yes, I guess it was the next logical step after the last 10 months.<br>I was ready for it. I studied, had stable job, the house, the dog, the marriage\u2026 and the kids, right? That was the next step.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I looked at my brand-new baby in the hospital and remember all too well the feeling of watching someone else&#8217;s life. I oscillate between this love and fascination for this little being and total incomprehension of what I&#8217;ve just experienced. I don&#8217;t know this postpartum body, I don&#8217;t know this mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve lost all my bearings. Everything has to be relearned. They didn&#8217;t tell us that in prenatal classes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What&#8217;s it like to be a mom?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For now, I&#8217;m finding it difficult, I&#8217;m aching all over and part of me is thinking: what have we done? It&#8217;s all too big. I feel dizzy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I felt like I&#8217;d come out of the fog several months later, but one question persisted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Who am I now? I&#8217;m a mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But is the person I was before still there? I&#8217;m inhabited by the impression that she no longer exists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And so began a long quest, a search for identity that was accentuated by the return to work. This impression of walking through someone else&#8217;s life.<br>One day, I came across the podcast, <a href=\"https:\/\/lamatrescence.fr\/\">La matrescence<\/a>, and I finally understood what I&#8217;d been going through for months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Matrescence &#8211; noun<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Physical and psychological transformation experienced by a woman during her transition to motherhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Physical and psychological transformation experienced by an individual during the transition to parenthood. Because, yes, fathers experience this transition too!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The concept was first studied by anthropologist Dana Rapha\u00ebl. 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